So yeah it's been a while since I posted. I'm still unemployed so that definitely puts a crap in my writing...
Been having a lot of problems at home. A lot of them are my fault.
Mrs Ryan and I talked for a while and she's quite upset that I don't seem to want to pay attention to her. She thinks I don't find her attractive anymore. I tried telling her I did and we talked (and yelled) a lot more... Finally decided that we'd make an effort to actually have sex more often. I'm always saying I'd love to have sex as often as possible.
Well... maybe not. See she said something of the effect of "so you want to have sex every day?" I said well yeah... She brought up the book and how it really upset her that I never followed through with it. And she'd be really upset if I didn't follow through with it again (the book incident was like... 8-9 years ago).
We ended up having sex that afternoon... and again that night. Next night (Friday) nothing happens... no big deal...
She goes off with her friend for the day on Saturday... when she gets home we talk... she asks if i was serious about wanting to do it every day for a week... ummm... sure. Well then why didn't I do it last night? Uhhh... I didn't think SHE was serious. Ok so she is. Great.
Saturday night comes and we're sitting on the couch together... I start to get drowsy because well I ALWAYS get drowsy sitting on the couch. She takes great offense to that. Apparently the prospect of having sex with her isn't enough to keep me awake. Big fight ensues.
Well... maybe that's true. Seriously if I wanted to fuck her you'd think that'd be enough to keep me awake at 9:30p. It's not like I only had 3 hours of sleep or something. Is my sex drive shot? Do I talk a big game while not actually following through?
I don't know... but... yeah... not fun times.
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Gosh. Welcome to the real world. My hubs talk the game too "I want sex all the time" blah blah blah yet, HE turns me down sometimes and I never turn him down. Why are couples fucked up like that? What is it? What do we need? It doesn't make any sense at all. I want him to take me. Just take me. But he wants me to throw myself at HIM! So we both turn around and lick our wounds when we feel dejected when we should be licking each other...
um. well. she could also "wake" you up. sometimes (and we are in the prime of our relationship) i have to WAKE HIM UP..."wanting" is a two way street.
I was wondering what happened to you :)
sorry things aren't going spectacular, it will get better
Really definitely goes both ways.. she wants it she initiates it. duh.
Good luck
The eternal marriage conundrum. I agree with S.M. & V.L. that if she wants it, she should make you want it, too, and wake you up if you are feeling drowsy. I hope things improve for you! Sucks enough to not be working, but to have issues at home on top of it is doubly un-fun!
Hope things are going better for you. I've given you the Versatile Blogger Award on my blog. Not that a blog award makes up for lack of sex or anything, but congrats just the same.
My partner and I love sex.
But... we also love sleep.
:)
You gotta figure it out... xoxo
Last night we had dinner, a bottle of wine, a massage, a shower, and we were in bed fucking by 8pm. I AM NOT LYING.
Also... you gotta hit on morning sex. Testosterone levels are higher in women in the morning.
Hmmm.... I'll keep thinking...
Basically, your wifey is ultra sensitive right now.
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